Episode 62
Aug 1, 2025

Are Men Okay?

Is there a Crisis in Masculinity? Elliot and James Penny from Flex Your Feelings podcast, tackle one of today's most controversial topics head-on!

In this honest conversation, we explore:

- Why modern men feel lost and confused about their identity

- How social media algorithms are warping masculine role models

- The shocking truth about what schools are teaching boys about masculinity

- Why "toxic masculinity" is being confused with healthy masculine traits

- The missing positive male role models in today's society

- How to reclaim healthy masculinity without hatred or division

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Key Topics Discussed:

The difference between masculinity and misogyny

Controlled aggression vs toxic behaviour

Why men are afraid to be protective and assertive

The impact of educational bias on young boys

Finding balance between masculine and feminine energy

Building emotional intelligence while staying true to masculine nature

Timestamps:

00:00 - Is there really a masculinity crisis?

08:57 - How social media is destroying male identity

17:52 - What does healthy masculinity actually look like?

26:33 - The shocking truth about school curriculums

35:44 - Finding the balance between masculine and feminine

45:12 - Where are the positive male role models?

This isn't about promoting toxic behaviour or putting anyone down - it's about understanding how we can support men to be their best selves while respecting everyone in society.

About The Paradox of Change:

We're three qualified therapists (Elliot, Lottie, and Fi) making mental health insights accessible. Our mission is to help you understand yourself better and build healthier relationships.

We're here, inspiring people to talk, could you be our next guest?

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Guest: James Penny from Flex Your Feelings Podcast

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Welcome to The Paradox of Change, where three experienced therapists guide you. We believe in understanding your needs, because the most important relationship you'll ever have is the one with yourself. Individual therapy and growth coaching focusing on mindset, money, and marketing can help with self confidence and personal development, and we are here to help you with relationship advice.

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