Episode 86
Feb 21, 2024

Modern Dating & Ghosting, with Rum Fotooki #012

Fi and Rum discuss various topics related to relationships, coaching, and therapy. They explore the dynamics of conversations and the importance of sharing more in order to build connections. Elliot shares his journey into coaching and his focus on relationships. They discuss the experience of ghosting and the impact it can have on one's self-esteem. They also touch on the concept of perfection versus potential in relationships and the rise of polyamorous relationships. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the differences between coaching and therapy and the importance of setting boundaries. In this conversation, Elliot Burgess and Ron discuss various topics related to coaching, therapy, personal growth, and making a positive impact on the world. They explore the differences between coaching and therapy, the importance of authenticity, and share personal experiences of hardship and growth. The conversation concludes with a unique activity involving a message in a bottle.

Takeaways

* Coaching and Therapy serve different purposes and it's important to understand the distinctions between the two.

* Authenticity is crucial in personal growth and making a positive impact on the world.

* Key moments of hardship can lead to significant personal growth and transformation.

* Engaging in activities that promote self-reflection and connection can be meaningful and impactful.

Fifi: https://www.instagram.com/fifisclif?igsh=YzlnazI2bXp6Zmpo&utm_source=qr

Rum: https://www.instagram.com/itscoachrum?igsh=MW5lNjE0Z2h6NWZuZg==

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Small Talk

01:28

Sharing More in Conversations

03:03

Purpose of the Podcast

04:36

Journey into Coaching

06:27

Focus on Relationships

07:36

Performance Coaching vs. Relationship Coaching

08:21

The Power of Writing and Blogging

09:08

Understanding Core Beliefs

10:25

The Experience of Ghosting

12:29

Overinvesting in Early Relationships

20:20

Fantasies and Falling in Love

24:23

Perfection vs. Potential in Relationships

28:38

Exploring Polyamorous Relationships

32:13

The Impact of Choice in Dating

38:02

Men's Fantasies in Relationships

41:00

Curiosity in Coaching and Therapy

45:14

Coaching vs. Therapy

48:56

The Importance of Neutral Language in Therapy

53:26

Coaching vs Therapy

56:22

Key Moment of Hardship

58:26

Making the World a Better Place

59:49

Message in a Bottle

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