Episode 63
Jul 31, 2025

What Makes Relationships So Hard?

The Relationship Podcast: There has to be an I before We

Welcome to The Paradox of Change, where three experienced therapists guide you through the essential truth: You have to have a relationship with yourself before you can have a relationship with others.

Meet Your Guides:

Elliot Burgess - Individual therapist specializing in men's mental health and foundational "I" work

Lottie Passell-Syms - Sex and intimacy specialist for couples therapy and deeper connection

Fi Sclif - Individual therapy and growth coaching focusing on mindset, money, and marketing

What You'll Discover:

How self-discovery leads to relationship mastery

Practical tools for infidelity recovery and authentic communication

Insights into masculinity, femininity, and identity development

Strategies for divorce, dating after trauma, and co-parenting

Our Philosophy:

Inspired by Carl Rogers: "When a client accepts themselves as they are, the curious paradox is that they then change." Transformation starts within.

New episodes every two weeks | 26+ episodes available

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Welcome to a session with Lottie Passell-Sims, a relationship specialist ready to share her insights! She's discussing modern love and offering relationship advice. Get ready for some real talk on today's session.

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